Saturday, April 11, 2009

(Still) about marriage

I guess this "marriage-thingy" will always be my hottest topic until my little brother later on married. Hehehe.
Whew! Getting married is surely not a piece of cake stuff (*of course^^). Well, even though the one who'll get married is ready...mind, body and soul. Still, there're more things need to be considered thoughtfully. And i guess among lots of things, family is the most important. Not only our own family, our couple's family also. OK, i'll make it more specific. The PARENTS. They are very important in this case.
Hmm...sometimes, i don't really understand the parents way of thinking. Well, i'm not a mind reader, indeed. But, i mean, sometimes their way of thinking is way too far or way too difficult to be reached and understood by the children. OK, for example. This is my family case, actually. My Mom is a bit disagree with the idea about my little brother will get married first. Oh..come on, Mom...you're so Java-rashi (*Hehehe, well...she is actually). What is so wrong with letting the one who is ready to go first ??? I mean, if my brother has to wait for me to get married...wow, maybe he has to wait for quite a long time. It's not fair for him, really. Right now, marriage is not my priority, yet. And btw, to whom will i marry ? ^^
Back to my Mom. She told me that my brother is way too young to get married. HECK, Mom...he's almost 22. And btw, i don't agree if the well-preparedness of someone is measured from their age. Young age is not always equals to unreadiness. That's why my father is a little bit stressed out. It took a few weeks to make Mom change her mind about this. When this issue was over, another issue came up. What else, except about me being skipped by my younger brother in this marriage-thingy. OMG...OMG...i thought this kind of issue was over long long time ago (*deep sighing). Well, seems like i have extra homework to do. I hope i can convince my Mom about this. I hope...

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

keep on trying for convincing...if your work is not working, there will be another hardwork to do then...hihihihi...

bunga (馬莎莉) said...

Gyahahaaaaa...i know where your sentences will go, Rit. Yeah, i'll do so for sure^^.

netta said...

sometimes parents knows better, it's just the communication thingy. sometimes children knows better, but still, they have less experience.

bunga (馬莎莉) said...

Yeah, that's the "common" problem, Sun.
That's why we need to communicate well (*intensively, if it's necessary)^^.