Thursday, May 21, 2009

Conflict is a Fact of Life

No matter where we go, we will face people who piss us off. It's kind of "natural". I don't know why but day by day, that kind of annoying people are getting plenty. DREADFUL.

I always want to put this "I won't let them bother me to begin with" on my head, but sometimes it's not that simple. Took me some time before i can overcome it. Besides, i'm not kind of person who can let problem just flew like that. I think about it deeply. Yeah, i know it will cost me a bunch of energy...but, somehow it's worth it, makes me feel better. The old me was more wise, actually. I used to throw myself in people's shoes, putting myself in other's position...try not to be blind-sided in the situation i've faced. Hmmm...but now, i feel like "bored" doing that. Too complicated. *sigh*
Someone said that “Holding a grudge against someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” The only person we hurt is ourselves. When we react to negativity, we are creating pain within ourselves. But i don't know why, i tend to do this stupidity. Yeah...another "homework" for me to do. *sighing again*

4 comments:

Yuher said...

hug..
hug...
hug....

sometime, we just want to ignore them... but we can not.. huehehehe...

keep smiling sista,,, ^_^
*taunyaYGdimaksudGWlagee*
kyaaaaaaaaaaa,,, huahahaha :D

bunga (馬莎莉) said...

yeah...even we've tried to ignore them, still...because we are working with them, it's rather difficult, Rin.

hai hai hai...arigatou ne^^. i will.

*bukan kamu lah^^. PASTI. hehehe.*

Anonymous said...

why's PREMAN still taking all those things by heart??? *piss bunga....hehehehe...

(*sorry for everything i've done wrong even if those are not realized by me..)

bunga (馬莎莉) said...

yeah..that's me, Rit (*little by little you'll understand that i'm one-of-the-kind-PREMAN ^^).

my biggest problem is if i'm already hold a grudge to someone, it'll likely last forever. he/she will fed me up no matter what he/she's trying to do.

No No, Dear...it's not you, really^^.