"Cinta adalah anak dari kecocokan jiwa. Maka jika kecocokan jiwa itu tiada, jangan harapkan cinta itu hadir dalam hitungan tahun bahkan milenia". (Khalil Gibran)
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Okay, that is just so WOW-ing! Honestly, my heart was fluttering at the moment I heard Ust. Salim A. F. reciting that sentences a few weeks ago when I attended his kajian at 4th Bogor's IBF. Well, it's true that I haven't met my "soulmate" yet (maybe he's just right before my eyes and still preparing himself or maybe he's dunno-out-there and still looking for me), but after listening to this kajian I feel like getting more patient waiting for him. #tapipleasejanganlama2,ya XD
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Being single or married is actually has its own "advantages". And most cases, one another always envying each other in such a ridiculous way. The single wants to get married because she/he thinks that getting married is super fun, whereas the married one wants to be single again for a freedom of doing anything's reason. Well, that's just "so human" :). As for my case, the single, the most important thing is preparing oneself before taking a responsibility as a wife or husband. Ust. Salim pinpointed one critical thing as a preparation before the marriage (for the single) : GET OBSESSED instead of EXPECTING.
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OBSESSED means oneself will engross in transforming him/herself to be the best among the best. That means he/she is focusing on him/herself to be the better one, so later he/she will match well with the soulmate and able to compromise with anything he/she sees on the soulmate. While EXPECTING means oneself engrosses in the wishes or dreams to have a specific criteria of his/her future wife/husband; witty, patient, fluent in English, diligent, caring, etc etc (~ honestly, a few years ago I was an "expector", but not now) and forgets to prepare his/herself well. For the latter one, if later in the future the wife/husband he/she gets is far from the expectations, well...the dreams or wishes will surely be shattered. Imagine things will be going on between the spouses who feel disappointed to each other. Bummer.
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Errr, confused with my explanations? Then I'll suggest you to hear Ust. Salim's kajian (which of course I recorded #grin) to get a whole picture of it. Btw, I was 15 minutes late coming to his kajian because I needed to clean up my boarding house first with the other tenants :D. Feel free to download Ust. Salim's kajian here (I uploaded it to my dropbox account; the file size is around 78 MBs; it's not only good to be listened by the singles but also for the marrieds). Get OBSESSED! #sembaridengansabarmenunggusang"soulmate"tiba
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